According to many leading
psychologists, positive self esteem is vital in the development of a healthy personality. Nathaniel Branden calls
self esteem: The immune system of consciousness. Self esteem is about
how we feel about ourselves. It is our thoughts and feelings about ourselves, for example: I am good looking. I feel
good about myself. I am kind. I am competent and so on. The level of our self
esteem determines how we operate our life, the way we view our life, the manner
we interact with others, with our spouses, children, friends, and strangers. It
also determines our goals and what we strive for. It is proven that people with
high self esteem tend to be more ambitious in what they want to experience in
life. They have a drive to express themselves and to communicate openly and
honestly about their needs and desires. On the other hand, people with low-self
esteem tend to withdraw from people, less motivated, less focused and confident
about themselves. Some of us have grown up with high self-esteem and others with low self-esteem. We get
them from our parents and sometimes, they fail to give it us not because they
are deliberately withdrawing it
from us, but more so because
they themselves are suffering from low self-esteem and do not know how to
impart it. Instead of looking everywhere for a boost of self-esteem and ending
in frustration for not having found it, we should always turn to God who can
restore and gives the true expression to our identity. I believe He is the one
who can give it us.
The baptism of Jesus is the most
expressive moment in the life of Jesus of who he is in the sight of God. There are no other moments in the time
of Jesus, where Jesus has received this explicit confirmation from his Father, of who he is, namely “the son
of God.” Another moment of this voice of confirmation would only appear at the
moment of transfiguration of Jesus. This moment of anointing Jesus with his
identity as the Son of God has opened up a whole new world to Jesus, a whole
new ministry. His ministry was in fact restoring that very identity of the
people and giving them a true sense of belonging to God, namely being children
of God. Never once did Jesus falter
in not believing in His sonship even in the midst of temptation, persecution or
even crucifixion. In fact, the
last words of the centurion seeing Jesus dead on the cross were: “Truly, this was the son of God”
(Mark 15:9). I believe it is in this utter conviction and belief in the identity
of being the Son of God,that Jesus,
having a proper and high self-esteem about him (and other as well) was able to
proclaim God to people effectively and unwaveringly.
Fr Robert Daniel Francis
Fr Robert Daniel Francis
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